“Accept there is no solution”

I've noticed therapists are told to say some phrases here and there, but one of them that has really irked me is when therapists just say to accept there's no solution.

Apparently this is actually a phrase that is "taught" to therapists? And I'm sorry, I do think it's a pretty dangerous thing to say.

When I heard this from therapists, first of all, it was usually coming from those refusing to even give any effort towards helping me. But when I heard it, I really was wondering, are they suggesting that I actually end it all? I mean, I already feel there's no solution, so what is this saying, just accept there is no help? So, what, I really have to be hopeless?

Like, who tf says that to someone struggling with mental health? This is just a claim, what if there was a solution and they just gave up? They won't even try?

It usually always comes from the most arrogant personas who say this too. I've literally gotten laughed at from therapists. "I'm really afraid there's no solution." Therapist: "yeah chuckle there might not even be a solution!"

Like okay, thanks for the "insight", here's 100 dollars for saying that.