Double standards HELP

I feel like people react differently toward you on Reddit depending on your gender and especially if your conventionally attractive or not. Like I feel like if you say the same thing as a woman if it’s kind of like whatever when it’s somewhat sus. Or if you’re pretty you could get away with so much moreee idkkk

Maybe I’m just jealous of the pretty girls on Reddit like how am I so ugly and I’m on Reddit like that’s actually loser behavior