Different decks, different meanings, spiritually gaslit...?

So as the title says, i collect decks whether i like the energy, the art or whatever else. Occasionally I'll use multiple decks to assess a situation but lately ive noticed when im reading on certain situations in my life ill get the most amazing spreads but as time progresses the situation blows up in my face.

I wonder if im not asking the right questions, or if my timing is off?
how do you handle this?