Rutgers NB (full pay) vs NJIT (full merit scholarship)

Hi, so I asked the NJIT subreddit this but I wanted to get your guys' opinions too. As the title suggests i got a full scholarship to NJIT and will probably be full pay at Rutgers when I get in and I was wondering which one I should choose. Some things:

Looking to be a math + cs double major and then possibly go into quant or if it fails, academia. (or sellout and go into big tech idk yet)
Family makes 220k+ per year and they paid my sisters education to Rutgers so theyre happy paying mine but obviously its better on my conscience if I take the merit scholarship.
I do value the better social life (tryna reinvent myself for college) but its definetely not the number one thing

Thanks in advance!