What have you enjoyed about being lesbian?

Being lesbian is not easy, let's face it - both people inside and outside the LGBTQ community hate us.

However, I want to believe that despite all the bullshit, there is still hope and enjoyable parts of our identity. I especially want young lesbians who are just coming to terms with it, to not be beaten down.

What are some things you've enjoyed about being a lesbian?

For me, I've found it so liberating to no longer be visible in the male gaze. I love that my life is de-centred from men. Once I fully leaned into my butch identity, men no longer give me any attention.