Hyperspecific things that ruin IFs for you?

I am currently reading through whiskey four and find myself struggling to really get into it quite a bit, specifically with the portrayal of the military aspects that it leans into quite heavily at times. As somebody whos still active the way the characters interact with each other feels much more like what interactions between soldiers are usually like in movies and TV shows, our protagonist is essentially a bumbling idiot that keeps pointing his weapon (and almost shooting) at things he hasnt properly identified and the CQB scenes in the hotel feel very Jason Bourne-esque to me, where we essentially prevail only thanks to the sheer incompetence of our opponents. All in all a bit frustrating to me because the game gets very close at times to depicting things accurately.

Obviously none of this is in any way the authors "fault", Its still a very well written book and this is just me nitpicking hyperspecific things, all of which are probably quite hard to research and, I imagine, very few people actually care about that much.

I guess I am just here to ask: Have you guys had similar experiences? Did you manage to still enjoy whatever you were reading and how did you do it? Because I feel I might be missing out on a very cool story due to being a mega-autist about this