Why don’t men like independent women?

Even though I never said “all men” yall are reading it as such. So I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT “ALL” MEN. NO GROUP OF PEOPLE ARE ALL EXACTLY ALIKE.

I hear a lot that men don’t like women who are independent. However, we live in a day where everyone has to work their hardest just to have the basics sometimes.

Like, a woman who has her own car is a turn off, but how is she supposed to get to work to pay her bills?

A woman who pays her own bills is a turn off, but how are women expected to actually survive without a roof over their heads?

Do men want us to be sitting ducks at our parents house until a knight in shining armor shows up? (kidding)

Jokes aside, can someone help me make sense of this?