Are there any gays here with social anxiety?

I HATE hookup culture, I feel like I'm one of the few gay people that I know that hates going to clubs, loud music and hooking up with random people. I can't even speak properly to a stranger most of the times cause of my anxiety, this makes me sad, because these are the only way that I can meet other gay people in my country (and I think kinda everywhere). Are there any people like this on this subreddit? I feel that we're a quiet minority.