Control from two phones?

Hi. New to the Twinkly fam. These lights are for my daughter. I want her to be able to control them on her phone. It’s a Dots string of 200.

I couldn’t set up the lights on her phone because we have a parental controls VPN on her phone. I set them up on my phone instead and they work. I can do all the effects and all the things.

The app is installed on my daughter’s phone and I can see the light string. But it is a hollow green circle. I can only power on and off and select saved light patterns. Can’t even set a timer.

I disabled the vpn on her phone to see if that would help. Nothing. Signed out signed back in, nothing. Any thoughts on how to do this? It completely defeats the purpose if I have to control these from my phone. Thanks.