How to balance trusting God’s plans and taking action?

God won’t bring a girlfriend to my doorstep. God won’t bring me $100,000 overnight. God won’t bring me a 6 pack either.

I have to work to obtain these things. Go through lots of failures. Lots of days where I don’t feel good enough but still push through anyways. How do I realize God won’t provide these things for me while still acting in faith that he will meet these needs someday? He has given me the order to subdue the Earth.

What is God’s will for my life when it comes to taking action on these things?