Kandi forgiving Kim but not Phaedra

I may have forgotten the context of the whole “drug and rape” thing, but I can’t find Porsha exact words anywhere… Can someone link the exact episode please? Also, I feel like the accusation had little to no effect on Kandi reputation because everyone knows Porsha was just is a fucking liar and nothing she said Was worth listening to or taking seriously because that’s all she’s been doing that szn… and it was a high level of it too. I feel like Phaedra has been punished enough for that rumor, and allegedly the producers were involved with it (not surprising bc they still wanted to keep Phaedra around but Kandi was protesting it). Kandi and Phaedras falling out stemmed from her marital issue w Apollo and Kandi backing Todd in his support of Apollo. We’ve seen Apollo be abusive on many occasions (Kenya’s friend, multiple arrest, abusing his now soon to be ex wife, and going after Phaedra with a tool gun in his hand) nothing he’s done or shown us that he was worth siding with. The fact that Kandi and Todd were holding his things at their place is such a betrayal.

But personally, I feel like Kim has done worse to Kandi but Kandi was always willing and open to forgive her and move past it, especially when it comes to how little Kandi got for tardy for the party, Kim doesn’t show up for her as a friend, how Kim allowed the nasty comments of the homeowner that says something about “you took care of that black baby”… And Kim having all these micro aggressions and Being a fucking hater about Kandi’s house.. which Kandi was super proud of.