What do you think

My 4yr old son spilled water in his bed and was crying about it. My husband told him since it was his mess up that he gets to sleep in it. I don’t think that’s fair because he’s a toddler and didn’t mean to do it. He said it sucks to suck. Isn’t that borderline abuse in a way? Or at least neglectful. Idk. Maybe I’m too soft but I didn’t like hearing him say that