Learn to say No, Makes life Easier

Earlier in the week, a friend invited me for the Gabzy event. We were meeting with this person for the first time and the event seemed like a great idea.

I didn't know the artist, but was willing to try. So I sat down, went on YouTube and listened to the guy's music.

It dawned on me that it wasn't my type of music, and I'd be bored to hell at the event. So I declined even after her being insistent.

My whole being was not comfortable with going. For her, she wanted to be there because she had FOMO. I told her I wouldn't be joining them. They went with the sister and the bf.

She texted me on Instagram today morning and told me that she regrets going. She had a negative experience, her phone was stolen and she's now back to square one. I sent her my sorries.

Learn to say no even if it means disappointing people, especially if your gut just tells you no. It sometimes protects you from a lot.