JNMIL is telling everyone we know that she financially supports us

I know she’s crazy and this is a retaliation against us for being no contact. it shouldn’t bother me so much but I’m losing my shit. We went no contact a few months ago bc of some nasty comments she was making about me, general life long mistreatment of her son, and treating our child like absolute dirt. Since then we’ve run into friends and family friends and they are sympathetic towards my husband and a little cold toward me. Apparently she’s been telling people this story (summarized)

According to her: They have been paying every single bill and expense we’ve had in recent years. I am is lazy and stay home claiming to be a SAHM but I don’t even cook for my child or take care of them. My husband is whipped by me and works exclusively to buy me designer goods and there is not money even left over to put food on the table for our child. They pay for our cars, our home, and THEY ensure our child has appropriate clothing and shoes for the weather because I don’t buy them anything. They paid for our destination wedding and child’s destination baptism. They’re begging us to just move into their home because they can’t take the financial burden anymore of supporting my lavish life style I’ve brainwashed their son and I’m after the family money We’re embarrassed about our life and actions so we will deny any of this is true if confronted about it

Every single thing stated here is a total lie. I also don’t live a lavish life I don’t even know where that came from. She’s making things up and lying thru her teeth and people believe them. I want to slap her in the face I’m so mad I’m shaking. I left behind a good career to take care of my children. My entire life is dedicated to my kid. I do nothing for myself, nor am I dripping in designer goods. My husband wants to buy me a nice handbag this month because I’ve rejected Christmas gifts and birthday gifts the last 5 years as a way to save money. We aren’t struggling. We have never seen a penny from his parents. They came to our wedding which they didn’t contribute a dime to and held their noses up the whole time. I just can’t with this woman, I don’t know what I’ve done to her or why she hates her some to the point that she’s willing to humiliate him to everyone he knows. And people believe her because she paints herself as a simple god fearing woman but in reality she’s the fucking devil and no one knows it.