Don't let them gaslite you, not having a girlfriend all the time SUCKS
So many times do I see posts around here where lonely guys ask for advice and/or loathe being lonely and so many annoying self righteous reddit university insufferable people reply
"YOU DONT NEED A GIRLFRIEND, YOU NEED HOBBIES"
"JUST TOUCH GRASS BRO, THERES MORE TO LIFE THAN GIRLS"
It fucking sickens me.
Guys, companionship and intimacy is a basic human NEED, being chronically single is not natural to us and not good for our mental health. Its ok to feel like you need a girlfriend, because well, you do, just like you need food or water. We evolved to procreate like all other animals. Ever keep a non-neutered pet before???
I'm a loner 21yo male and every day is a battle for life purpose, I distract myself with the gym, with hobbies, but God damn it never seems to fill that void. Something is definitely missing. There's a looming feeling of emptiness that just never goes away, even if I see success in other aspects of my life.