Never date an avoidant attachment style person.

4 years with a woman a truly love and still love. On a random day she decided that she didnt want to be with me anymore. She claims I’m an amazing partner and that I love her and show her in many ways. Yet she ended this abruptly without giving me a true reason or any closure. As I sit back and reflect on this relationship I noticed it was very much one sided at one point and her communication skills were absolutely terrible. I feel manipulated and embarrassed to have loved someone so much and at times put her before myself. I still love her and would love nothing but to be with her but I must learn to let go. It’s been extremely hard for me these last few weeks. Coming into the new year I just need to focus on myself I feel traumatized and I don’t think I’d ever love again. I know her and I know that at some point she’d come back but I don’t think I will want her anymore I want her to feel the same hurt that she put me through. To all my people going through a tough break up just focus on yourself and do the things you love and things that make you happy. Happy new year!