BPD reaches after 22 days of No Contact. Suggestion needed ❗️
After a cycle of push and pull, avoid and approach from my bpd partner, i wanted to take control of my life again after giving the control of the relationship in her hand. So I started going no contact for the first time (she goes no contact and reaches back at her own timeframe when we were in relationship and I always respond). Now after I went NC for 22 days straight, she texted today asking to meet. Any suggestion on this, or is it fine to meet and discuss generally. Or will the proposal to meet will be for something else. I cannot comprehend this act. Do anyone have a proper response to this ?