Please recommend a good mental hospital in NYC

I’m going through it and I think something’s seriously wrong. Can someone recommend me to a mental hospital that won’t do things without my consent or traumatize me? I have good insurance, I’m 22 yr old girl in Manhattan. I’m a POC and I have ARFID and definitely some personality disorder. Thank you. 😔 (I’m not going for ARFID I’m going to get diagnosed with what personality issue I have)

UPDATE: I went to NYU Tish bc I wanted to die or hurt myself rly badly. Walked into the ER crying they took me in immediately and evaluated me, gave me a gown to change into and showed me a clean bed in a tiny room with a camera in it (holding area). They were all super sweet but I talked to a psychiatrist for an hr told her all my trauma. She told me that I shouldn’t want to be admitted really bc and I quote “it can be more traumatic to be admitted, u will likely receive unwanted male attention since you’re so young and beautiful”… I was discouraged at that point but also didn’t want to just leave bc I still wanted to off myself/hurt myself. I later overheard a nurse talking about how it was crazy and traumatizing for her in there.😳 Hearing that from a nurse talking to another nurse scared me so I accepted them discharging me after 15 hrs. On my record the said I looked well dressed and younger looking than I am (true but that’s doesn’t mean I’m not mental STYLISH PPL WANNA DIE TOO! Lol). They were nice but seemed to discredit my mental state bc I was “cooperative, calm, put together”. They also highlighted anorexia hotlines. I’m not anorexic I have Arfid and I am/was very depressed so I didn’t really eat for a bit didn’t drink much (I had no appetite) so I fainted last week Sunday and got a concussion. I was surprised but I did want to hurt myself 🤷‍♀️ no one’s listening. Anyways concussion is healing but I might still go back to the hospital after NYFW.