Would you be okay if your girlfriend was a homebody?

My ex-boyfriend and I (27F) used to fight a lot because I turned ‘emo’ according to him. I love staying at home and read my books or write. I only go out to meet my friends and usually we meet at someone’s place to cook together or play some games.

I also do home workouts so I’m not lazy or don’t take care of myself.

He hated how I wouldn’t go out with him and go clubbing. I just really despise it. And after a while we didn’t have much to talk about anymore cause we didn’t share the same interests. Hence the break up.

Now that I’m dating again, a lot of men I meet go clubbing and seem sort of put off when I tell them I enjoy just staying in and read my book.

I feel like I’m in this boring person to them. But I just enjoy what I like and I don’t seem to find a man sharing the same interests.