AIO or is this mean
The guy I’ve been seeing is overall very sweet and kind but likes to joke like this. I know I’m sensitive and I’m on the spectrum so it’s sometimes hard for me to know when people are joking, especially over texts. I also know I’ve been with guys who truly have flipped this quickly. I told him when he jokes like this it hurts my feelings and he said “I gotta toughen you up, babe”. I don’t see a long future with this person either way but I don’t know if this goes into the pile of reasons why or if I am overreacting about it.
The guy I’ve been seeing is overall very sweet and kind but likes to joke like this. I know I’m sensitive and I’m on the spectrum so it’s sometimes hard for me to know when people are joking, especially over texts. I also know I’ve been with guys who truly have flipped this quickly. I told him when he jokes like this it hurts my feelings and he said “I gotta toughen you up, babe”. I don’t see a long future with this person either way but I don’t know if this goes into the pile of reasons why or if I am overreacting about it.