AITA for not waking my husband up?

Husband of 14 years, together for 24 yrs, historically has an issue with falling asleep on the couch while we watch tv or movies. He was diagnosed with sleep apnea but refused to wear a cpap. Hes also reactive to caffeine and will fall asleep instead of getting any stimulation from it. Be still consumes caffeine, even though he has cut down on it quite a bit.

I spent many years with an eye on him while trying to watch whatever we're watching and each time he dozes off I'd say some version of "hey babe wake up". He'll wake up for 30 seconds to a couple minutes and then he's back asleep again. Rinse and repeat x infinity.

I'd turn off shows I know he likes so he doesn't miss them, as a courtesy, meaning I have to stop watching and miss episodes and not be able to catch up or straight up give up because of a spoiler that pops up.

We had an argument because he promised me "a nice night. We'll rent a movie!" yesterday. So I spend $6 to rent a movie which isnt much, that's not the point, but within 5 minutes he's snoring away next to me.

I spend the next half hour-45 mins trying to wake him up but he keeps drifting off. So I stop and just watch the movie. Eventually he wakes up to catch the last few minutes of the movie which he quickly declares was "dumb". Ok. Sure.

We have another discussion today about how I was disappointed. He says we'll try again tonight. I tell him I'm not getting my hopes up but sure.

We ate dinner and he voluntarily chose to drink a caffeinated soda, despite having alternative options. We had a Hell's Kitchen to catch up on, it's almost the season finale. So, I put it on and again within a couple minutes hes zonked. I watched the episode without waking him this time, thinking that rather than him catching bits and pieces that we could rewatch if hes that interested.

I turn on another show and hes still snoring away. I decide to make some noise with some ice in my drink. He startles awake and makes a comment about not splashing and then hes back off to Snorville.

Maybe 40 mins later, he wakes up and heads to the bathroom. When he emerges I can already see where things are going to go. Hes BIG MAD and starts in on me and how I'm TAH for not waking him up and that it's just me being evil because I could have. When I say I did (the ice) he denies it and calls me a liar.

Besides the obvious relationship problems going on here, AITA for not waking him up constantly for the last 24 years?

He also uses me as his personal snooze button when he takes a "half hour" nap... "give me 20 more minutes" "10 more minutes" "just 10 more minutes" "ok 5 more minutes and I'll get up".